“Wow, I’m a natural. This is it. I was born to do this,” were the very thoughts I had moments before I was disqualified.
After running the 100m dash at a track meet in elementary school, our coach asked the team if anyone wanted to enter the speed walking event.
“Speed walking? Like…walking with speed?” I thought to myself.
This was my first official track meet and everything was new to me. The sights, the sounds, the smells, and especially speed walking.
Though I had never heard of the event—let alone see it take place—I volunteered for it. After all, how hard could it be? It’s just walking fast, isn’t it? Anything was better than just waiting around until the track meet was over.
After the coach showed me the proper form and let me in on the rules, I was off.
Seconds into the race, I was leading the pack. Minutes in, the distance between me and the next contestant was unfathomable.
“Wow, I’m a natural,” I thought to myself. “This is it. I was born to do this.”
And that’s when it happened. I was pulled out of the race for breaking the rules.
Disqualified. No second chances. No restarts. It was over. My rising Olympic career was over.
Have you ever been disqualified?
Okay, maybe not for bending your knees while speed walking, but for something else? For over embellishing your resume? Or, maybe for looking over at your friend’s answers during an exam?
There’s a disturbing—dare I say—trend that I’ve noticed over the past several years. It seems like an increasing number of public figures are falling from grace and disqualifying themselves from leadership.
Eric Geiger words it well in his new book, How to Ruin Your Life and Starting Over When You Do,
I could easily write about a recent story of a well-known leader, coach, college professor, or ministry leader who was removed from a position of influence because of disqualifying behavior, because of issues of character and integrity. However, the story would be old news by the time you read these words because there are always new stories as these implosions continually come to light. Competent and effective leaders in a variety of fields and disciplines forfeit their roles over deficiencies in their character. They were able to lead others but not themselves, able to grow an organization while their hearts grew cold. When a lack of integrity comes to light, leaders can be disqualified. [1]
[Read more…] about Why Isolation, Boredom, and Pride are as Dangerous as Dynamite
