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An Intro to Disciplining Your Children

Disciplining your children is probably one of the most controversial topics in our society today. Every culture has a different norm or standard for what’s okay or not. Not only that, but the times have changed from when we were kids so that everyone is pretty much tip toeing around the issue.

For example, did you hear the recent story about a mom using hot sauce and cold showers to discipline her child? Click here to read about it, or check out this video below.

This post is not meant to be THE ANSWER to all your questions, but rather a starting place or a place of resource as you determine what your disciplining style will be for your family.

Rather than doing the whole hot sauce and cold shower thing, what about this method for disciplining?

Here’s a solution for a perpetually messy bedroom: Explain to your child, “I cannot bear to look at this room anymore — it’s too messy! I’m going to turn off the circuit breaker so I can’t see it. When it’s clean enough for me to tolerate, let me know and I’ll turn your power back on.”

Haha, okay that’s pretty funny and I guess that would only work during the day time. Nevertheless, the need to discipline is a real issue and here are some reasons why we should discipline our children:

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Book Review: Couples Who Pray

This is a solid book explaining why couples should pray. They back up their claims with good research as well.

For example, between couples who pray sometimes versus couples who pray a lot,

  • 60% vs 78% are likely to say that their marriage is happy
  • 38% vs 54% are satisfied with their family life a very great deal
  • 0% vs 0% is the fear of divorce – virtually eliminated in both groups – among couples who are satisfied with sex a great deal.

The authors then go on to explain some common marital issues that will come up, and how to solve them. This book can pretty much be summarized by this.

Pray with your spouse for at least 5 minutes a day for 40 days and you’ll see the difference.

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Marriage and Spirituality

Ever since Christina and I got married, we have always made it a point to keep our marriage centered on God. As a result, we would oftentimes use a devotional or we would sometimes just dig into scripture together. What I’ve discovered is that the format isn’t as important as the fact that you are drawing closer to God together.

It’s fascinating to see what happens when we alter our focus just a bit.

Scenario 1: Spouses focus on each other and strengthening their relationship.

Result 1: Marriage relationship is strengthened.

Scenario 2: Spouses focus on strengthening their relationship to God together.

Result 2: Stronger relationship with God and stronger marriage relationship.

When’s the last time you prayed with your spouse? When’s the last time you talked about spiritual matters together?

Husbands: Take the initiative.

Wives: Don’t wait for your husbands to take the initiative, you take it.

I just purchased Closer: Devotions to draw couples together by Jim and Cathy Burns (http://amzn.to/agoltE) as a practical action step to draw closer to my wife by drawing closer to God together.

What steps are you taking?

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