Archives For June 2011

This is a solid book explaining why couples should pray. They back up their claims with good research as well.

For example, between couples who pray sometimes versus couples who pray a lot,

  • 60% vs 78% are likely to say that their marriage is happy
  • 38% vs 54% are satisfied with their family life a very great deal
  • 0% vs 0% is the fear of divorce – virtually eliminated in both groups – among couples who are satisfied with sex a great deal.

The authors then go on to explain some common marital issues that will come up, and how to solve them. This book can pretty much be summarized by this.

Pray with your spouse for at least 5 minutes a day for 40 days and you’ll see the difference.

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Although it’s not Lent, I came across this amazing resource.
Check it out for next year’s Lent.

I cannot recall the last time I have ever heard anyone teach or preach about being Martha – myself including.

When reading Mirrored Reflections: Reframing Biblical Characters, ed. Young Lee Hertig and Chloe Sun, Beverly Chen went to lengths to show the importance of integrating both Mary and Martha’s characteristics in our lives. Chen explains how Mary’s strength of inward spiritual formation actually flows naturally into Martha’s strength of hospitality and outward ministry.

Personally, I tend to identify more with Martha – not necessarily in the aspect of hospitality, but in the aspect of valuing doing more than being. From both my Korean and Canadian culture, I constantly feel the pull toward producing, succeeding, and accomplishing things. However, one thing that I have learnt is the necessity of coming to Jesus Christ first before even thinking about doing anything else. As a result, in that sense, I am like Mary.

Who are you more like? Mary or Martha? Or both? If both, in what capacity?

One thing we know for sure is that the wonderful summer months do not take away our need for community. In fact, with the long Edmonton winters, summer is THE thing many of us look forward to. Instead of doing things just by yourself, or with your family, what do you think about the idea of scheduling opportunities to have fun, eat a meal, and just fellowship together with those in your group?

Groups are not about meetings, they are about relationships – it’s about doing life together and living life together. As a result, even though you may suspend your regular group studies for the summer months, make an effort to do life together.

Here are a list of things to do together with your group to get your creative juices flowing:

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Check out this hilarious video on shallow small groups.